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Articles by Tracey
NEW! Adding "ed" to regular verbs
Comprehension - the best strategy
Dyslexia in a nutshell
Phonics for the beginner
After three letter words
Making short work of long vowels
Paired Reading
Your parent teacher conference
Is he just a late starter?
How to choose reading books
Real Life Stories
"Don't give up" - a reader's letter
Phonics start Ashley reading
Mark's first reading books
Lauren and the double vowel rule
Katie can read but doesn't want to
A bad conference turned around
Harry, lucky at 7
Interesting Facts
Phonics and guided reading
A critical time for learning to read
Recognizing key words
Reading aloud
Questions & Answers
How can I get my son interested?
How can I help my restless son?
Which books are the best?

 

Questions & Answers

How can I get my son interested?:
Q:
Dear Tracey:

I have a 9 year old son with a second grade reading level. I have bought him different reading programs that were recommended by his teacher, I set aside 30mins reading time for him, I have bought him books when he's interested in a subject, -but I'm getting nowhere with him. He has no interest or desire to read. Can you suggest anything that will interest him? He will be going into fourth grade this coming year and I'm afraid it will be a tough year for him and for me

Please let me know. I will take any advice

Claudia
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A:
Hi Claudia

Great to hear from you. I hope the following advice is helpful because there's nothing quite as soul destroying as worrying about our kids is there. Here's what I would do:
1. Firstly, I'd check that he has instant recognition of "sight" words. Print from my site the 220 Sight Words (from resources). Sit down with your son. Have him read through the list. When he falters at a word or can't read it, have him highlight it. Have him write the word (or you can write it) onto a piece of paper. Write neatly and leave a space. When you have 10 words, stop. Have him read out the ten words. He should sound out when he can but if a word doesn't sound out then highlight the tricky letters and aim to remember them. (eg "said" doesn't sound out, the "ai" bit is weird; "want" looks like "w-ant"(the insect) so you just have to remember that it sounds like "wont") Have him read them out again from the bottom to the top. Point out individual words for him to read to you. Now, cut out the individual words so you have 10 pieces of paper about the size of bus tickets. Spread out the words, face down. Can he turn them over and read them? Mix them around and repeat. Next, you hold them in a fan, words facing you. Can he take them one by one and read them to you? Put the words into an envelope. Do 10 minutes each night with these words for a week. Next week do 10 more from the list until you've worked through all 220 words (only the ones he doesn't know)

2. Do 20 minutes of paired reading each night too. Pick a great book. Some of the series to try (in order) are Real Kids Readers; Nate the Great; Bailey School Kids; Magic Tree House; Rainbow Readers; Captain Underpants; Hardy Boys; Secrets of Droon; A to Z Mysteries; Goosebumps; Animorphs and A Series of Unfortunate Events. (Some excellent book series from the UK/Canada/Australia are, Ladybird; Solo; Zippers and Zappers and Aussie Bites). Paired reading is explained on my site.

This is a great time to get this work done before school starts. Good luck and keep me posted if you get time.

Very best wishes

Tracey
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How can I help my restless son?:
Q:

Dear Tracey

I just finished reading your book and it is great!!! My son is in the 4th grade. He had trouble reading since Kindergarten. Between 2nd and 3rd grade I spent the summer teaching him to read. What I came up with was close to what you have suggested so that's probably why he did so well. But some of your other ideas, like-hands off, I wouldn't have thought of and I'm glad you did. My question is that in K, 1st and 2nd grades he was very hyperactive, always out of his seat, talking, "off task" and trying to be silly. Since being able to read a lot better, he got better in 3rd grade but he still has a problem with being "off task" and needs redirection to keep working. His understanding of directions seems slow. What takes most kids two days to understand takes him three with me going over it at home. If there are more than one or two directions on a page, he gets confused and goes "off task." Do you have any suggestions on what to do about this? The teacher feels he may need medication to keep him focusing on his independent work, but he can focus very well one-on-one taking one direction at a time with me at home. The teacher doesn't have the time to do this though. What are your thoughts on Ritalin? I am very against the use of this, but sometimes get frustrated by the teacher complaining and feel like maybe I should give it a try.

Keep up the good work. I hope to see more books-I'll be waiting for your reply.

Thanks,

Tracy from Iowa
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A:
Hi Tracy,

First let me say how delighted I am to hear from you! I love hearing from readers.

In answer to your questions:

Well done on helping your son!! I know how hard it is to help your own child and it can feel thankless at times. So; distractibility. That's a tough one. I know a few moms who use Ritalin in low dosages and are glad they do. I know others who I thought used it without real need. Like you I err on the cautious side and would only use drugs if I were absolutely at my wits end. It sounds to me like you are still in control, though it's hard going.

What can you do in real terms?
- Ask for your son to be given key words rather than masses of instructions.
- Have the key words in short lists so he can check them off when he's addressed them
- Keep going!!!!-

I'm afraid your situation is the lot of parents whose child has struggled through. Even though kids learn to get the better of their difficulties they never have a smooth ride and always have to work harder than the rest. I'd say you are in for a long haul BUT you are doing everything right and should be able to help your son make it successfully through school and college years.

I hope I haven't sounded too vague but the reality is that there's no quick and lifelong fix. Your patient, ongoing support will do it though!

Very best wishes,

Tracey
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Which books are the best?:
Q:

Dear Tracey,

I am using your book as a resource (and emotional crutch) as I prepare to start teaching an RSP class after 5 years of child rearing. Your chapter 6 is helping me tremendously. The SPRint lesson plan of how to manage time in an hour or make the most productive use of a child's time is sooooooooo helpful. Your book sure has given me a boost in enthusiasm and a feeling of "I can do this".

A question for you: Since I am financially limited and can only pick two from the three recommended resources, which two would be the most wide ranging and complimentary for teaching/reinforcing/practicing skills? I am sort of leaning towards Fitzroy Readers and Primary Phonics as I figure I may find the Wright books through the library (once I pay my late fees-tee hee).

Thanks for the book!!!

Warm regards,

Jeni, California
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A:
Hi Jeni,

Thank you so much for your letter! I so miss talking to parents. I am currently writing "Teaching Kids To Read For Dummies" so I feel like I'm in isolation!:)

If I were buying books, I'd go for the Fitzroy Readers for definite (not the workbooks). I've used these books for years and every child has been able to read them. That's so important for kids who feel "dumb" or disheartened. I agree with you, I'd skip the Wright books. The Primary Phonics books are great readers too.

If you need workbooks, I'd get the Reading Freedom books. They are good at guiding you through the skills in order and have won all sorts of awards. You can do lots of things with the pages after you've used them once ie circle this, highlight that.

Good luck!! I'm sure you are a fantastic teacher and I'd love to see how you get back in the swing.

Very best wishes,

Tracey

Interesting Facts

Phonics and guided reading:
Studies show
struggling readers should be instructed in phonics. Guided reading is effective too.
-National Institutes of Child Health and Human Development, 2002
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A critical time for learning to read:
With intensive reading instruction 95% of struggling children aged below 9 can attain average reading levels.
-National Institutes of Child Health and Human Development, 2002
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Recognizing key words:
A child must learn phonic information to the point of becoming automatic ... otherwise it could take him hours to read a story.
-Peggy M Wilber, Reading Rescue 1-2-3, 2000
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Reading aloud:
Reading aloud with your child has
a "significant and positive impact. "
-"Teaching Children To Read"report, 2002, National Institute of Child Health and Human Development
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Articles by Tracey Wood

Adding "ed" to regular verbs

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Why it's confusing
Your child isn't sure about forming the past tense. When should he add a "t" (like in "slept"), when is it "ed" (like in "played") and when should he use a double letter (like in "skipped")? - The wonderfully simple thing about putting regular verbs into the past tense is that you always add "ed" -even when you hear "t", like in "skipt" (skipped) or "id", like in "wantid" (wanted). The reason your child gets confused is that he has seen exceptions like "kept" "wept" and "slept". Point out to your child that these words are the odd or irregular verbs. He should get to know them well so he isn't caught out by them then get comfortable with the easy rules for adding "ed" to all the regular verbs

The easy rules for adding "ed" to regular verbs
1. Most verbs, just add "ed":

talk + ed = talked

2. Verbs already ending with "e", you need only add "d":

smile + ed = smiled

3. Verbs ending with "y", change the "y" to "i" then add "ed":

cry +i + ed = cried

4. Verbs with a short vowel and single last consonant (like "hit", "hop", "bet", "bat", "dab", "nap", "skip" and "strut"), double the last letter then add "ed":

hop + ped = hopped

A word like "stamp" does not follow this rule because it ends with two (not one) consonants.

Past tense of irregular verbs
Your child knows, without even thinking, the past tense of irregular verbs. If you say "begin" she can tell you "began". To help her practice and get a better grip on some weird spellings (like "caught"), run her through my list: Putting irregular verbs into the past tense.

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Comprehension - the best strategy

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If your child reads a page from a book then wonders what on earth it all meant, he has poor comprehension. How can you help him? - By leading him through comprehension before, during and after skills.

Before
Before your child reads a book or article have him preview it. Previewing means looking for clues about what the writing's all about. Clues to find are:

Headings
Sub-headings
Bold, italic or underlined print
Bullet points
Pictures and diagrams

When he's spotted some or all of these clues he can make informed predictions about what's coming up so that when he starts reading the text it seems familiar right from the start!

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During
What should he do while he's reading? - Stop after each paragraph to highlight key words and make brief notes. The notes are a simple summary, in his own words, of what's going on. He can use colored stickies for his notes and perhaps color code them to answer the famous five Ws:

Who
When
Where
What
Why

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After
After reading the text your child gets to use his notes and highlighted words. Have him read them and tell you a short, important-points-only summary. (What are the important pieces? What's interesting? If a detail isn't needed to tell the story, ditch it.) - Listen attentively as he tells you what he's figured out or, ta da, comprehended!


Dyslexia in a nutshell

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What dyslexia really is
The literal meaning of "dyslexia" is "trouble with words". A person with dyslexia has unexpected, pronounced and enduring trouble with any combination of reading, writing and spelling. Also he may struggle with spoken language (forgetting the words he wants to use), receptive language (understanding instructions), math (especially remembering number sequences) and directionality (left/right, inside/outside). A person with dyslexia can greatly improve his skills but he can't get rid of his dyslexia altogether.

What dyslexia definitely isn't
Dyslexia is not caused by low intelligence, poor teaching, poor parenting, laziness, or vision or hearing difficulties, though these factors can add to the problem.

What causes dyslexia
Researchers are not certain of the cause of dyslexia but believe that: Your genetic material (passed down through families) determines whether or not you get dyslexia. Dyslexia is the result of your brain having trouble processing written and spoken sounds.

What you can do about dyslexia
Help your child understand what dyslexia is so he knows he's not "dumb". Help your child improve his language skills (reading, writing, spelling, listening and speaking) by having him taught (and tutored) in a multisensory, structured and sequential reading program that emphasizes phonics. Ask your child's school to make helpful accommodations for him (like allowing him extra time on tests). Teach your child how to type and use gadgets like voice-to-text software and spell checkers.

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Who can help you
Psychologists give dyslexia assessments.

A university or college that trains educational psychologists and special education teachers may give you free or low cost assessment and tutoring.

Organizations like The International Dyslexia Association (www.interdys.org) and the Learning Disabilities Association (www.ldanatl.org) have local branches where you can meet other parents of dyslexics (or other dyslexics) and get information about resources in your area.

Your child's teacher can make accommodations in class.

Websites, internet chat rooms and literacy hot lines can answer your questions.

Independent tutors, consultants and schools give specialized instruction.

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Dyslexia Buzz Words
Individualized Education Program (IEP): An IEP is a written plan of exactly how special education is to be delivered to your child. When your child qualifies for special education (because he was assessed and found to have dyslexia) he must, by law, have an IEP. The resource (or special education) teacher is the person who takes charge of your child's IEP.

Accommodations: Adjustments made to your child's learning environment that help him participate fully.

Least restrictive environment: Like "accommodations" this term is written into laws that relate to dyslexia so it's a good one for you to use. You want the "least restrictive environment" for your child in class, probably accomplished through "accommodations", so he has "equal access".

Appropriate education: If you get into a dispute in school, or need to let it be known that you know your rights, this phrase is handy. In legal terms your child is fully entitled to an "appropriate" education (but not the "best" education).

Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA); Section 504 (of the Rehabilitation Act); Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA): These are the main laws that protect children and adults with dyslexia.

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Phonemic and phonological awareness, and phonics: When your child learns that words are made of chunks of sound he has phonemic and phonological awareness (specialists make a fine distinction between the two). When he learns phonics he matches letters and combinations of letters to those chunks of sound.

Multisensory learning: When your child uses a few senses at the same time (usually seeing, hearing, saying, doing) it's multisensory learning.

Learning Disability (LD), Specific Learning Disability (SLD): Schools classify dyslexia as one specific kind of (language-based) learning disability. You hear this summed up variously as a learning disability, a specific learning disability or a language-based learning disability.

Orton-Gillingham (O-G): This is a remedial reading instruction program. It's the longest standing and most commonly used remedial reading program in schools and other programs, like Lindamood-Bell, call themselves off-shoots of O-G or at least say they're influenced by O-G.


Phonics for the beginner:
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Phonics
Teachers of struggling readers teach phonics and spelling rules. Why? Because for struggling Johnny, words and sentences are an arbitrary puzzle. To decode the puzzle he needs to know the rules.

When we show Johnny that letters represent sounds we're teaching phonics. When we show that groups of letters make new sounds (ight), and work with families (tight might fight flight sight) we're teaching phonemic awareness and spelling rules.

The phonics sequence
Phonics and spelling are learned in a sequence. The sequence should be more or less the same in any book or program you use.

The phonics sequence is:
1. single letter sounds -
the 'short' sounds (a as in apple, c as in cat)
2. short vowel sounds - inside 2 and 3 letter words(hat bet hit hot bun...)
3. double consonant sounds - blends: st, sm, cl, pr... and digraphs: ch, sh th ph in phonetically regular words (stop, smack, clock, brick, shed)
4. long vowel sounds (meet, meat, pain, pane...)
5. more complex letter groupings.(eigh, ought...)
Note: a digraph is 2 letters together making their own new sound
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Starting off
When children start to read they must forget the letter names for a while. Talk in letter sounds so Johnny can soon start to make simple words. Talk of:
"c" = "kuh" not "see"
"m" = "muh" not "em."

How to teach single letter sounds
The best way to teach the letter sounds is to work on 3 or 4 letters a week.
Make a poster or book with things that start with the letter and keep adding to it
Talk about things that start with the letter.
Find the letter in books, magazines, billboards.
Sing alphabet songs.
Rhyme and play with sounds.
Be actively involved!

Alphabet songs
Kids usually know the alphabet song (thank goodness for Sesame St!) but try this one too. To the tune of 'Skip to My Lou' and using letter sounds, make up verses like this:
Alice loves apples, a a a
Alice loves apples, a a a
Alice loves apples, a a a
Skip to my lou my darling

Bats in the basement, b b b...

Candy in the closet, c c c...

(Don't worry if Johnny says Keith or Katie, it's the sound we want so we don't have to be too strict).
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Bingo and other games
Kids love games especially when we play with them. Buy from school supplies stores and play together often.

Progressing to 2 and 3 letter words (with a short vowel sound):
Johnny can read regular 2 and 3 letter words as soon as he knows a few letters. If, for example, Johnny knows a t m s and c he can easily be taught at am cat sat mat Sam. Remember that vowels have two sounds, long and short, (and sometimes 3 sounds!) and we only want to teach the short vowel sound at first. Explain that there is a long sound (when it crops up), but concentrate on the short sound for now. Make sure the words you use have the short vowel sound and can be sounded out. Don't for example teach ape because the a in ape makes its long sound and long sounds, being more tricky, are learned later.

Letter Sounds
'Short' sound
cat
egg
hit
on
cup
'Long' Sound
a
pe
eve
pile
open
clue

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Make or buy a set of letters for Johnny to make words with
Choose lower case because Johnny will be reading and writing in lower case and is taught that capitals are only for the beginning of sentences and important names. Can Johnny make hat? mat? hot? pot? Write and cut out your own letters or buy from a school supplies store. You can get cards and magnetic letters or tiles from about $5 to $20. Creative Teaching Press (www.creativeteaching.com) has an excellent set of letter cards, called Letter Blocks for $5. (Make sure you get lower case). Whiteboards and blackboards are useful too.

Teaching 3 letter words
Readers read in chunks, not single sounds, so teach the chunks an at and in to start Johnny off with chunking. Show the an then add onto the front. Do the same for at and in

Example:
This is an
Do you see a...n.....an?
Put c(kuh) in front, c...an
It says a new word, it says can
What if you take away c(kuh) and put p(puh) in front?
p...an
pan!
What if you put f in front?
fan!
Can you make something that I put on my head that ends with at?
-hat
-Can you tell me a new word if you hide your eyes and I make it when you're not looking?
-Can you make a new word while I hide my eyes?
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Using letter cards to teach 3-letter words
Give Johnny the letters he needs and ask him to make the words:

a words: use letters a d g l n p s t
Make; pan nap sat pat gap gas lag lap pad pal sad sag sap

i words: use letters d h i n p s t
Make; pin win din sin tin hid hip hit pit sit his dip sip tip (dish ship)

e words: use letters: e g l m n p t
Make; leg let men met net peg pen pet ten get

o words: use letters: d g h o m p t
Make; dog dot hop mop pod pot top hog hot got

u words: use letters: b d g h m t u
Make; bug but hug hut mug tub hum dug tug mud gum gut



Fill-in the vowel activities
Most beginning workbooks ask Johnny to fill in the missing center vowel in three letter words but Johnny may not want to do it! Adapt by giving him vowel tiles and asking him to choose the right one. You write the answer, he can read the words back to you.

Flashcards are a great way to practice words you've started teaching
But sort through flashcards before using them. Don't use all the cards at first, instead use only the words you're teaching. For example sort out just the regular three letter words (hen net box).

"3 for free"
A good game to play with flashcards is "3 for free." Johnny turns over cards from the face-down pile, reads the words and gets three for free for every three correct cards - "for free" means he doesn't have to read them out. Shuffle each time you play and Johnny will soon have read all the words.
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After three letter words
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When Johnny knows words like cat mat hat pat he's ready to learn words like blink spot chip shot. These words teach him consonant blends and consonant digraphs.

A blend is two or three letters that each make their own sound but blend into the next sound (st cl sp fl...). A digraph is a pair of letters that make a unique sound. The digraphs are ch sh and ph and some people include wh as well. Teach Johnny to read, write and make these words using lists and flashcards.

Blend at beginning Blend at end (or beginning and end) Digraph at beginning Digraph at end
clap
clip
clot
drip
drop
flag
flap
flat
flip
flop
grab
grip
slip
slit
slop
spin
spit
spot
stand
still
stop
bank
blank
drank
drink
lost
past
plank
rest
ring
sing
sink
sting
chat
check
chess
chick
chimp
chips
chop
shed
shot
shrimp
shut
clash
ditch
fetch
flash
flesh
mash
match
patch
pitch
posh
slash
smash
witch

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ch and tch endings
The ch ending is often preceded by t. Make word families to explore this. You'll find that an n is usually followed by ch.
nch ch tch
bench
bunch
drench
lunch
month
munch
tenth
wrench
couch
much
pouch
rich
sandwich
such
catch
ditch
hatch
latch
patch
pitch
sketch
witch

Long vowel sounds
After double consonant sounds come long vowel sounds. How do we recognize a long vowel sound? There are 3 common rules for long vowel sounds:

Rule 1. When 2 vowels go walking the first one does the talking
When vowels come together in pairs a long sound is made. The first letter of the pair makes its long sound (it shouts out it's name!) while the other stays silent.
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Examples:
meet
meat
pain
boat

The pairs of vowels are: ee ea ai oa

Examples:

ee ea ai oa
deed
feed
feel
feet
free
freed
jeep
meet
peep
seed
sheet
sleep
sleet
steep
tree
weed
weep
cheat
deal
dream
each
eat
heal
meat
neat
peach
real
seat
speak
steal
stream
teach
team
weak
brain
chain
drain
faint
frail
maid
mail
main
nail
paid
pain
rail
rain
sail
saint
sprain
trail
boast
boat
cloak
coast
coat
croak
float
load
moat
road
roast
shoal
soak
soap
throat
toad
toast

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With spelling rules there are always exceptions
Words like bear, pear and wear don't follow the 2 vowels go walking rule but that doesn't make the rule less valuable. Johnny will be delighted when he can read words because he knows the rule. He won't care too much that there are some exceptions.

Rule 2. Magic e
When "magic e" is on the end of a regular short word like pin, the middle vowel changes its sound. The short vowel sound becomes a long vowel sound. Pin becomes pine. Read the examples and cover over the end e to see how magic e works. (Some teachers teach "bossy e," it makes the vowel shout it's name)

Examples:

long a long e long i long o long u
blade
cane
cape
fade
hate
made
mane
mate
pane
spade
tape
trade
vane
wade
compete
complete
Eve
Pete
stampede
Steve
theme
bite
dice
ice
kite
mice
nice
rice
ride
side
site
slice
tide
twice
wide
bone
chose
code
cone
cope
home
hope
lobe
mope
pope
rode
rope
slope
tone
brute
cute
flute
plume
pollute
rule
salute

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Rule 3. y behaving as a vowel
This group is often taught with the long vowel group:
When y is on the end of longer words it behaves like an e making its long "EEE" sound.
When y is on the end of small words it behaves like an i making its long "EYE" sound.

Examples:

y behaving as long e y behaving as long i
funny
happy
hungry
silly
by
my
pry
shy
sly

Long vowels cause problems
When Johnny struggles, long vowels nearly always cause most of the trouble. It's worth spending a lot of time helping Johnny make and read long vowel sounds. Where a rule doesn't apply just tell him that some words are just those odd ones that follow their own ideas! eg want we'd expect this word to rhyme with ant, but it doesn't. It's a weird word, watch out for it!
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Making short work of long vowels
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When Johnny struggles with reading, long vowel sounds are often the cause. Long vowel sounds are hard to read because they're made in a few different ways.

What can we do? The very best thing we can do for Johnny is to teach him the three most important long vowel rules. Three rules won't overwhelm him, they're not hard to teach and they'll make an immense difference. Here they are:

Rule 1. When 2 vowels go walking the first one does the talking
When vowels come together in pairs a long sound is made. The first letter of the pair makes its long sound (it shouts out it's name!) while the other stays silent.
Examples:
feet
meat
pain
boat
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The common pairs of vowels are: ee ea ai oa
Examples:
ee ea ai oa
deed
feed
feel
feet
free
freed
jeep
meet
peep
seed
sheet
sleep
sleet
steep
tree
weed
weep
cheat
deal
dream
each
eat
heal
meat
neat
peach
real
seat
speak
steal
stream
teach
team
weak
brain
chain
drain
faint
frail
maid
mail
main
nail
paid
pain
rail
rain
sail
saint
sprain
trail
boast
boat
cloak
coast
coat
croak
float
load
moat
road
roast
shoal
soak
soap
throat
toad
toast

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With spelling rules there are always exceptions
Words like bear, pear and wear don't follow the "When 2 vowels go walking" rule but that doesn't make the rule less valuable. Johnny won't care too much that there are exceptions.

Rule 2. Magic e
When "magic e" is on the end of a regular short word like pin, the middle vowel changes its sound. It becomes a long vowel sound eg pin becomes pine. (Some teachers say "bossy e" makes the vowel shout it's name.)

Examples:
long a long e long i long o long u
blade
cane
cape
fade
hate
made
mane
mate
pane
spade
tape
trade
vane
wade
compete
complete
Eve
Pete
stampede
Steve
theme
bite
dice
ice
kite
mice
nice
rice
ride
side
site
slice
tide
twice
wide
bone
chose
code
cone
cope
home
hope
lobe
mope
pope
rode
rope
slope
tone
brute
cute
flute
plume
pollute
rule
salute

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Rule 3. y behaving as a vowel
When y is on the end of longer words it behaves like an e making its long "eee" sound (or e saying its name).
When y is on the end of small words it behaves like an i making its long "eye" sound (or i saying its name).

Examples:
y behaving as long e y behaving as long i
funny
happy
hungry
silly
by
my
pry
shy
sly

Weird words!
Some words follow their own ideas! eg want -Johnny would expect this word to rhyme with ant, but it doesn't. It's a weird word, so just tell Johnny to watch out for it!
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Paired Reading
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Bridging the gap
When Johnny can read basic books but not harder and more interesting books "paired reading" bridges the gap. In paired reading we read out loud with Johnny to help him develop fluency, confidence and comprehension. Without our help his reading would be slow and labored and he'd lose the sense of the text.

Where to begin
Choose exciting or fun books that are slightly above Johnny's current ability and plan to read regularly for at least 20 minutes each time. Try out these different types of paired reading to see which suits Johnny best:

Alternated reading.
This is when we read out loud to Johnny and ask him to take his turn too. We split the book evenly, one page or chapter each, or we do most of the reading ourselves. Gauge Johnny's willingness and divide the text accordingly. If he's reluctant, it's OK to have him read only one sentence per page (he can choose his sentence) until he's more confident.
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Choral reading
This is when we read out loud together, in unison. If we read very slightly ahead of Johnny he can follow our lead when he gets stuck with a word. If we read slightly behind Johnny we'll know he's doing most of the work! When we get well co-ordinated there's another variant too. -We jump in and out of Johnny's reading according to whether he needs our help or not. Johnny nudges us when he wants us to read with him and nudges again when he wants us to stop.

Incomplete reading
This is a good technique when we know Johnny's problem is more lack of enthusiasm than lack of ability. -We read a really good book to Johnny then stop at a crucial point and leave him hanging! When we close our book we're hoping Johnny will be so captivated he'll simply have to read more for himself.
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What about siblings?
If you have two children who each want to be involved, try rotating your attention. Read one book with Johnny then one with Jane. Perhaps another family member could do the other half of your rotation. With more than two children, try alternating paired reading with stories on tape. Libraries usually have lots to choose from and Johnny can enjoy harder books (like the Harry Potter series) he would otherwise miss out on.

A happy routine
Paired reading is effective. Johnny progresses because he enjoys the close interaction with us and gets to read an exciting book too. But to make sure paired reading works we must choose great books, be warm and supportive and make paired reading a regular and frequent habit.
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Your parent teacher conference
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If you've got some concerns or complaints to take with you to your conference you may be feeling a bit anxious. Here are 6 easy steps to help you through it.
1. Plan the time of your meeting. Make it at least 20 minutes and leave your children with someone else when you go.
2. Before you go, write down the points you want to make.
Write in terms of your child rather than in terms of the teacher so you'll make your point without criticizing the teacher's conduct. ie "He is unhappy and doesn't want to go to school", rather than "You make him unhappy". "He seems to get so much homework", rather than "You give him too much homework".
3. Decide exactly what outcomes you want from the meeting. Think in terms of practical outcomes so you don't end up just talk about your issues. Try to think of practical answers and ask the teacher to help you out with this. Write down the practical steps you think of.
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4. Avoid or defuse argument by keeping to your point.
If an argument is developing, slow your conversation down and pause to regain some calm. Then, keep repeating your main issue. It might be that Johnny is unhappy at school. If the teacher doesn't really address your issue, by for example telling you how good the classroom reading scheme is, you might say something like, "I'm sure this program is good but Johnny is unhappy about reading. The program isn't meeting his needs."
5. Make it clear that you're willing to help. Offer any suggestions you've thought of and ask what the school can do to help Johnny. Can Johnny be included on an existing program? If not, can the school psychologist suggest anything? Are there volunteers who could help Johnny? Can you be trained to help?
6. Plan a follow-up. Meet again with the teacher; send her a note each week; call her. Do something. Then you can monitor whether the practical steps you though up are happening and whether they're any good.
I hope these 6 simple tips help, you can find more detail on this in (you guessed it) "See Johnny Read!
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Is he just a late starter?
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You're worried about Johnny. Should he be doing better in class? Is he just a late starter with reading? Will he make his best progress later? You ask at school but get told things like: it's common for children to start reading at different ages; he's doing OK; I don't think you really need to worry. You're not reassured. Especially if your other children started reading a lot sooner, or Johnny's friends in school all read better than him, you worry.

Here's some plain advice. If you're worried, chances are you have good reason to be. If Johnny's clearly not doing as well as most of his classmates (and you can tell this just by watching), take action. The wait-awhile notion is a trap when it comes to reading problems. If you delay it just gets harder for Johnny to catch up. When, in real terms, should Johnny be starting to read? The vast majority of children start reading between ages 5 and 7. If Johnny isn't getting started at age 7, he needs help. If we delay giving extra help to kids who can't read at age 7 we may as well wave goodbye to a delay and say hello to reading problems.

The good news is that kids can make great headway if they get help in the areas of phonics and paired reading. Their chances are best between ages 5 and 7 and are still good right up to age 10. Kids 10 and older are at high risk. They need frequent, ongoing help if they're ever going to catch up. You can read articles about phonics and paired reading on this site. The book "See Johnny Read!" has more information too.
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How To Choose Reading Books
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Books, books, books. There's so much choice these days that pretty soon one books starts to look just like another. They're all so beautifully packaged too and they all claim to be just at the right level for your child. But, if your child's anything like mine, you know the hard truth. If the book you choose isn't just at the right level, and I'm talking exactly at the right level here, that book won't last 30 seconds. Johnny will feel overwhelmed, humiliated and mad. If you're lucky the book will be put right back in the bag you offered him (with hope in your eyes), if it's not a good day for you the book will hit the wall with force. Choosing books can be awful on parents. We're supposed to have lots of nice warm experiences but we don't. Our kids don't like the glossy books that look friendly but open up to reveal lots of hard words casually mixed in with the easy words (words like "casually") and you fear that if much more of this happens Johnny will be permanently put off.

Here's some help:
- If Johnny struggles with reading, resign yourself to putting a lot of time into doctoring books for him. It will be absolutely worthwhile.
- Choose books with lively, inviting stories and themes but a small amount of text that's got only a few unknown words.
- Before showing Johnny the book, find the unknown words. Teach these words to Johnny before he attempts to read the book (by sounding out and learning as sight words).
- Read the book together at first if that's what Johnny wants.
- Have Johnny read the book a few times so he gets more fluent and confident.

Happy reading! -And by the way, these methods are explained more in, you guessed it, "See Johnny Read!" by yours truly.
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Real Life Stories

"Don't give up" - a reader's letter
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I wish I had found this site 7 years ago. For about that long I have been researching and learning about reading so I could help my son. When my son was in 1st grade and doing a sight reading program in school, I realized he didn't know the letters. After doing a lot of reading I realized that the first thing he needed was phonemic awareness as well as phonics. I tried to get the school to use the methods I read about to no avail, so I learned about them and how to teach them. Forth grade: My son and I worked together in the summer and he learned the sounds for all the single letters and the short vowels and started sounding out words. Fifth grade: Unfortunately, during 5th grade he again was taught the sight word method and got frustrated and confused. Between 5th and 6th we made a bit more progress Sixth grade: The confusion and frustration got worse.

High school: 7th grade was a nightmare in every way. We just worked on getting him to survive. The fall of last year (8th grade) was worse so we finally switched schools with the primary goal of having him willingly go to school and not try to hurt himself (or worse). The switch was successful and he has a great teacher!!! We all agree he will probably stay there an extra year.
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In the meantime, I got my post-bac in teaching. I took the Phonics and Decoding class and it pulled together most of what I had learned (just about what is on your web site). I needed to tutor a student, so I chose my son. In a few short months, he has become a reader!!! I used a phonics-based program and made some modifications based on his learning style and complete conviction he would never read. He has learned r controlled vowels, and regular long vowels. He has begun to realize he has mastered these, so in a few weeks we will begin on words that aren't regular. He still hates to read unless he has a goal (codes and/or instructions for video games, cooking, etc.). But at least he can do that, and I am hopeful he will eventually enjoy reading for pleasure! I hope this letter inspires any readers who are going through the kind of nightmare I had.

Regards,
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Phonics start Ashley reading:
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"I'm desperate" said Joan. "Ashley's starting grade 2 and she can't read at all. She'll get special lessons at school soon but I want help now so she doesn't fall further behind." Joan was asking me to tutor her seven year old daughter Ashley.

In my first hour with Ashley, she wouldn't read from a page of three letter, large print words -not a line, column or single word. She said she "didn't like" the words. She was restless. She looked under the table, into the other rooms, into a drawer. She said she preferred writing to reading. She didn't like noise.

The next time I saw Ashley I showed her easy words written on pink paper and in different sized fonts. She still "didn't like" the words. She read most of her single letters sounds though and a few three letter words like cat and dog.

Did Ashley have vision problems? Hearing problems? Attention difficulties? Was she a master of avoidance? The answer to most of the above was yes. Ashley came to me with a pile of test results and labels from other specialists and I could've given more terms and descriptions. But what Ashley really needed was action, not more descriptions. To be taught in a way that accommodated her needs. Hard? Not really. Like most problems, the worry was so much harder than the solutions.
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I taught Ashley to sound out. Every lesson we moved forward a little and revised what we'd already learned. Sometimes Ashley was good, other times restless and disagreeable (just like me!). But with plenty of games and motor activities and a step by step structured program in phonics Ashley learned. From words like cat bat sat mat she moved to slightly harder words like brick shop belt church and then she learned the long vowel rules in words like meet pail boat pile. For homework she read books whose vocabulary stayed within her ability.

It's now 23 lessons later. Ashley reads beginners books and will soon take her STAR tests at school. I expect her to score within the range for her age. Ashley is succeeding, not with a magic fix, but with phonics; sight words; guided reading at her ability level and the extra teaching elements essential for struggling children -humor, flexibility and the understanding that while kids like Ashley are great masters of avoidance, it really is hard for them. They're not faking!
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Mark's first reading books
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Seven year old Mark was in trouble at school. He couldn't read like his friends and had developed an "attitude." Sensitive to any perceived taunting, Mark was often in fights and his teacher wasn't happy.

Mark's mom brought Mark to me for tutoring. She wanted him to start reading. She felt he couldn't understand most of what happened in class because of his poor reading skills and was suffering academically and emotionally. It didn't take long to see what she meant. Mark was surly and begrudging, full of "attitude."

Like many kids who start late, Mark knew his letter sounds but wasn't able to use them. Wanting to seem capable, he guessed wildly at words and masked his humiliation with a belligerent front. So we started with non threatening games. We wrote simple words on cards and played games with them. Starting with an (the best word to start a child reading) we made words like can pan man fan. From at we made words like fat hat mat sat. We found a reading book Mark could genuinely read, called "Fat Cat." At home with his mom Mark read "Fat Cat" twice and played games with the an and at words to help him remember them.
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Mark continued every week with this method of steadily building phonetic skills. He went from words like cat pot hen and bun to words like black fist and chip. Then he learned 10 sight words each week (words like were they why) as well as new sounds. His reading books moved to titles like "The Owl And The Clown."

After 20 lessons of structured and systematic teaching that emphasized phonics Mark learned to read beginners books. Today he's a different boy. He's happy, co-operative and even polite! His mom is convinced that phonics, and especially phonetically controlled reading books, made all the difference. Mark recently achieved grade level in his reading tests.
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Lauren and the double vowel rule
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"You're my angel from heaven" says Ann.

Ann is the mother of nine year old Lauren. Her praise does wonders for my ego but I have to confess it isn't hard won. I've been tutoring Lauren for twelve weeks and the skills she's learning are straight forward. Lauren is getting better and better at
-Proof reading
-Applying the double vowel rule
-Writing out spelling options and choosing the right one.

In the beginning Lauren had trouble with writing. A conscientious student with good grades in most subjects, writing was her Achilles heel. She could read well because she used contextual cues to work out her reading errors, but with writing, and few cues, she was conspicuously weak. Her spelling was "all over the place."
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In a quick spelling test, these were Lauren's errors:

1. scrap for scrape
2. throught for throat
3. breze for breeze
4. never for nerve

Here's what Lauren's errors tell us:

1. She's weak on the "Magic e" rule
2 and 3. She's weak on the "Double Vowel" rule
4. She's weak on hearing the sound parts in a word, then writing them.

When children can read and write, but erratically, it's nearly always the long vowel rules that are causing the trouble. Here's two important long vowel rules, if you can help your child "get" these, she'll make huge progress:-
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The "Magic (or bossy) e" rule: An e on the end of a short word makes the vowel say it's long sound
eg
hat hate
mat mate
hop hope

The double vowel rule: "When two vowels go walking the first one does the talking (and says it's name)"
eg
boat
meat
pail

Lauren and I worked on learning these rules and on sounding out words. We practiced dictation and proof reading and using scrap paper to find a correct spelling (is boat spelled, boat or bote? Write them both down, which one looks right?). Lauren will stop her tutoring after 20 lessons. She had the choice of stopping after 10 but wanted to continue! As Ann says, "Lauren's so confident now and has strategies to use. I never knew those spelling rules before, I'd never needed to, but they helped Lauren so much."

Try teaching your child these rules and techniques. They're really easy and really effective. For lists of words fitting these rules go to resources.
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Katie can read but doesn't want to
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Eight year old Katie had read lots of beginner's books and was starting to read harder books. But her teacher wasn't happy. Katie wasn't reading enough chapter books. Lucy, Katie's mom, asked me what she should do. Should she continue with easy books or insist that Katie persevere with chapter books? If she insisted that Katie read chapter books how could she enforce her demand?

I reassured Lucy that this was a common problem. Children get stuck when the jump from easy books to harder books is too big for them. They need help to bridge the gap. I explained "paired reading" to Lucy and the ways to do it. From then on Lucy and Katie read together every school night. At first Lucy was disappointed. Katie didn't want to read a page herself, or a paragraph, she would only read one sentence, of her choosing, from each page. For a week Lucy persevered. The next week Lucy and Katie tried reading chorally. They read together, out loud, in unison. They both liked this better and got through three books. Lucy was happy with the progress Katie was making but still felt Katie ought to be reading independently too. She worried that the choral reading was the only reading Katie would do.
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After four weeks Katie came home from school with an announcement. Her teacher had given her a "talking to." She was to read her chapter books with no more nonsense! Katie asked her mom to start a book with her. She wanted to read it chorally with her mom at first then finish it herself. Katie was obviously feeling more confident and Lucy was delighted. She read the first chapter with Katie. Katie read the next chapter to Lucy. Then she read quietly to herself. She is still reading chapter books by herself and her teacher still makes sure she does!
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A bad conference turned around
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In his first week at a new school, 8 year old Lenny didn't complete his writing and was kept in class at recess. His mom, Kim, met the teacher. "Lenny really enjoys your class and is happy here" she said "I'm concerned though when he tells me he's kept in at recess for not completing his writing. Could you tell me about this please?"

The teacher said Lenny had been kept in to teach him the consequences of being disorganized. If he applied himself better he would complete his work. Kim replied that keeping Lenny in at recess was creating new problems. He didn't get to socialize, so his new school wasn't fun for him, he was starting to hate writing too. Kim asked if Lenny could sit away from the others to complete his work in class, if distractibility was the problem, or if he could finish work at home?
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The teacher was adamant that she couldn't make a special case for Lenny so Kim ended the meeting (it really wasn't going anywhere) with a potential follow-up. She asked that if Lenny was kept in over the next two weeks, she be sent a letter each time, and another meeting be planned. A few days later Lenny came home in tears. He had handed in a report and the teacher had handed it back, saying it wasn't long enough. Kim went to the principal.

The principal suggested an incentives scheme for Lenny. He would get stickers for completing his writing, and a reward from Kim at the end of a week, if he had received stickers each day. The rejected report would be accepted with one extra sheet of writing that Lenny would dictate for Kim to type (so it wouldn't be arduous).

For the next few weeks the rewards system helped Lenny and for the rest of that year he wasn't kept in during recess. The principal's focus on positive, practical solutions broke through what seemed like an impasse. Kim was relieved and very thankful and adopted some practical solutions of her own. She helped Lenny with future reports and homework, instead of leaving him to work alone because, despite the bad start, the teacher was right about Lenny being disorganized!
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Harry, Lucky at 7
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Harry was 7 years old and in grade 1 at a regular public school. He was struggling with reading and was unable to read the beginners' books sent home with him each week. He was starting to resent being cajoled and helped by his mom, Sheila. Sheila growing weary and concerned, wanted to have Harry privately tutored. His classroom teacher, who was also the vice principal of the school, didn't agree with Harry being tutored. He accepted that Harry was surprisingly slow in beginning to read, but was not convinced this justified private tutoring. He advised Harry's mom to wait a while, to give Harry time to mature. Weeks went by, and still Harry was unable to read his books, although his teacher spent time each day helping him. Harry became more reluctant to read books at home, and Sheila contacted me.

Sheila told me she was worried sick. She could see Harry was performing at a lower level than his older sister had at the same age; he was much weaker than friends and cousins of the same age. Would he really improve if she gave him time to mature? I asked Sheila if she felt Harry would benefit from waiting. She didn't. She wanted to act, not wait, so I started tutoring Harry. Harry and I worked together on phonics, sight words and lots of reading at his right level. After just 20 lessons Harry was reading basic books. Better still, he was enjoying it, and Sheila felt a weight had been lifted from her shoulders.

Why was Harry so successful? Because he got the best possible help, good one-on-one tutoring, at the best possible age, 7 years old.
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